The Honor Window Tool
The Honor Window is a simple yet profound process that takes about 15-20 minutes. You'll work through four quadrants that reveal the invisible dynamics between you and someone you're in conflict with.
Quadrant 3
Quadrant 2
Quadrant 1
Quadrant 4
What to expect
You'll need:
Paper & pen to draw your Honor Window as we go
15-20 minutes of uninterrupted time
Willingness to be honest about your judgments
An open heart
Resistance at first
Uncomfortable naming
Surprised by what you discover in Quadrant 4
Emotional as walls come down
Relief as your suffering eases
Compassion for both yourself and them
Clarity about what to do next